De-emphasizing the Value of Sex

De-emphasizing the Value of Sex The sexual relationship within marriage is one of the most profound, rewarding, and mysterious of all experiences. But, strangely, some people think of sex as an immaturity that should be outgrown. In some marriages one or both partners may consciously de-emphasize its value and turn their attention elsewhere. This is, [...]

The Pubococcygeus (P.C.) Muscles

Just as the husband has shown an effort of sacrifice and love in gaining complete ejaculatory control, so the wife can also contribute to the relationship by attaining full control and strength in the pubococcygeus muscles, which surround the lower third of her vagina, in order to experience a much more intense sexual stimulation. Before [...]

Establishing Lasting Ejaculatory Control

Establishing Lasting Ejaculatory Control Practice sessions should continue on a regular basis to maintain ejaculatory control. 1. Use the squeeze technique at least once a week for the next six months. 2.    Once each month practice the squeeze technique for an entire twenty-minute session. 3.    Good ejaculatory control is usually attained in three to six [...]

Phase I: Arousal

This time of sexual stimulation, often called foreplay, can be delightful for both husband and wife, if the husband realizes that his tender skill at this point will prepare his wife for the love act itself. Most women like to be wooed and won. Let the man indicate by the way he approaches his wife [...]

The sex relationship in marriage

Scores of people—many of them Christians—come to my office looking for a medical solution to their particular marriage problem. While as an M.D. I can do a great deal to help medically, often there is a greater need for me to first communicate biblical information that can heal wounds, restore relationships, and establish the right [...]