Predictable, Mechanical Sex
Predictable, Mechanical Sex
An emotionally enriching intimacy is always a sign of life. Sex that is as routine as brushing one’s teeth and as mechanical as mailing a letter is a sign of a dying relationship. It may be revived by emotional preparation for physical sex, by varying times and places and approaches for sex, and by emphasizing tenderness and sensuousness rather than a technique that is goal-oriented to quick orgasm. A man can have a sexual experience that lasts a scant two minutes but this would be cheating both himself and his wife.
Posted in Hindrances to Intimacy
To Ed Wheat Sr. and Gladys Gibson Wheat, whose commitment, devotion, warmth, generosity, and integrity stood for fifty years as a beautiful picture of genuine agape love.